Airlines have carefully thought out boarding procedures. Passengers are divided into groups based on the cabin in which they are sitting, frequent flyer status, fare class, and the airline credit card they hold. However anyone can be in the group that boards first. That group is reserved for individuals requiring extra time to board such as families with very young children and people who have difficulty walking.
Over the years there have been times when I’ve silently questioned if some who claim to need extra time really did. Any resentment, though, is kind of silly because my boarding is not significantly delayed. Even in situations where an entire family boards with grandma or grandpa, the delay for others is minor. It is the thought of someone violating the rules to gain an advantage that fosters some indignation. This flight to Detroit showed me I should not be so judgemental.
I was looking forward to the flight because I was heading home just before Christmas and I’d get to enjoy one of the better business class seats in the air. In 2017, Delta Air Lines started a mini-revolution when it introduced the first enclosed business class seat known as the DeltaOne (D1) Suite. The D1 suite is a Thompson Vantage XL Seat with a door. D1 Reviews from previous flights are here and here.
Other airlines have copied and improved on the concept. The best business class suite I’ve tried is the amazing Qatar Qsuite. In 2019, British Airways made a huge leap forward when it introduced Club Suites, a Super Diamond seat with a door. Also in 2019, ANA unveiled The Room business suites. This product is probably the best business class suite and better than some first class seats. Until Covid-19 struck, I had been looking forward to trying it this year.
Delta Flight DL582 Shanghai (PVG) to Detroit (DTW)
The flight boarded at Gate 137 in the beautiful S1 terminal. Delta transferred its operations from Terminal 1 to S1 on September 23, 2019 one week after the terminal opened.

The flight time to Detroit was 12 hours and 34 minutes. The great circle distance between Shanghai and Detroit is 7,137 miles. Boarding began at 11:05 for the scheduled 11:40 departure. Everything seemed normal as I took my seat 7A.
See the previous posts above for descriptions of the D1 suite seat and amenities.


I had a mimosa pre-departure beverage.
Pushback from the gate was three minutes later than scheduled. Takeoff occured at 12:03. I settled in for what I expected would be a long but enjoyable flight.
Diner service began at 12:51. Beverages were followed by the appetizer, soup, and bread. I finished the soup but not the shrimp appetizer. When the attendant brought the beef entree I barely touched it. Even part of the ice cream sundae went to waste.
Having no appetite was weird. There was nothing wrong with the food. I felt like I should eat but I wasn’t hungry. I chalked it up to fatigue. I had arrived at Suvarnabhumi Airport in Bangkok just after midnight for the 02:30 China Southern flight to Shanghai. Except for a couple of hours of rest on that flight I hadn’t had any sleep in more than 24 hours.
Health Crisis
After the meal I slept under the comfy duvet. Several hours later I awoke with an urge to visit the lav. There I discovered I had diarrhea. There are many things worse than having diarrhea. One of them is having diarrhea and not knowing you have it. It was a miserable situation.
I went to my seat after being in the bathroom for about 15 minutes. I had no idea what was going on. Infection from bacteria, a virus or a parasite? A reaction to something I ate? Other than a couple more trips to the lav I stayed in the suite with the door shut until landing. It was December 23, 2019. Had this experience occurred a couple of weeks later when the news of coronavirus became public, I and the flight crew would have been very concerned.
Wheelchair To The Rescue
After arriving at the gate, I stayed in my seat until everyone else had gotten off. (It was interesting to see what goes on on a long-haul flight after all the passengers leave. In this instance, the flight attendants and pilots let their hair down and had a good time. It was like an office at quitting time on Friday before a long weekend.)
I was still very, very tired. The extendable handle on my roll-aboard suitcase had broken several months before. I didn’t want to buy a new one and carrying 30 or 40 pounds through airports provided some exercise. I carried my backpack and suitcase to the front of the plane and decided I needed help making it all the way through immigration and customs.
A flight attendant requested a wheelchair. A man helped me into a wheelchair at the aircraft door and stayed with me all the way to the Delta SkyClub lounge. I gave him my connecting flight information and we set a time for someone to meet me in the lounge and escort me to the departing gate. I wasn’t sure of what was customary but I gave him $5.
Another attendant took me to the gate, and when I arrived in Charlotte a wheelchair attendant took me off the plane and to the rideshare area. I don’t look disabled and I got a few looks being pushed around the airport in a wheelchair and boarding early. It was somewhat embarrassing but I was grateful for the service. I’m sure I could have made it without assistance but feeling like I had zero energy and carrying the roll aboard and backpack it would have taken a long time.
Final Thoughts
The next time I see someone who looks healthy boarding early or being assisted in a wheelchair, I won’t jump to conclusions about the person playing games to get favorable treatment.
Have you ever suspected some who board early or are in wheelchairs are faking it? Have you ever felt like you needed more time to board or assistance in getting around an airport?
Pleased to hear you had good assistance to get you through a tricky situation. Sadly disabilities, temporary or permanent, aren’t always visible so it is easy to judge.
I’m probably guilty of it in certain situations, although I have to say I don’t usually worry too much when boarding a flight. It’s nice if you board quicker but there’s no huge advantage to it, you’ve still got to wait for everyone else anyway haha.
Good lesson learned 🙂
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You are right, Jason. People boarding early don’t slow things down much. I also learned a good lesson from this experience.
It was freaky how the diarrhea and fatigue came on so suddenly. I could have made it without help but getting to customs and through the terminal would have taken a long time with the need to rest about every minute. I was really pooped. 🙂
It is also a bit freaky that my only two instances of illness in the last few years happened after being in Northern Italy in November and China (briefly) in December 2019. Coronavirus??? Thanks for the comment, and congratulations again on your engagement. That’s super great!
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Yeah, it’s kind of weird those are the only times you’ve been sick. It’s probably for the best you’re only aware of that now though and the virus wasn’t bigger news back then.
Thanks again for the congratulations too 🙂
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I usually fly once or twice a year. Had back surgery about 5 years ago. Next trip I was taking a break on my way to the gate when an attendant with a wheelchair spotted me and told me to hop on and he’d help me out. What a relief!! I still have trouble getting around. Now I also have a bad knee. Wheelchair service enables me to fly. At first it felt strange, not anymore. Glad you got help when you needed it. BTW, as a world traveler you should know that local bacteria in strange places can give you diarrhea in a heartbeat. Lastly, I’m a trumpeter who started playing salsa in 1971 in Chicago. I had the best Latin group in town for 25 years. Love it!!
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I won’t be too proud to try a wheelchair again when I need one. I wish I could have seen your band. There’s nothing like the horn section in a great salsa band! Thanks for visiting and sharing your experiences!
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Hi Jason! I agree it was best to not know about Covid. Sorry I missed your comment somehow.
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A couple of years ago I flew on a KLM 777 from Minneapolis to Amsterdam to Mumbai. I got food poisoning from some bad lasagna. A kind Indian gentleman scheduled for the flight to Mumbai noticed my distress and brought me to the airport medical office. I was diagnosed, treated, and given a sedative to swallow once I was seated on the aircraft. I took the pill and almost immediately zonked out. The next thing I heard was the voice over the intercom announcing we would be arriving in India in half an hour… who wants ice cream? I requested a cup of what turned out to be the most delicious dutch chocolate ice cream ever. I would expect no less from Netherlands based airline.
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Thanks for sharing your experience. I didn’t know airports had medical facilities. It makes sense that they would. I can see that an airport medical facility could be very helpful as in your case. I take it the services were free. DId you have to sign a waiver? Thanks again for your comment.
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The medical attention was charged to my credit card. I did have to sign a waiver.
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Yeah, they would want payment and a waiver. Free medical services is too much to ask for. Thanks.
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It’s the least I could offer. I barfed into a cardboard container the doctor held in her gloved hands. I failed to mention that a staffer wheeled me to the plane in a wheel chair.
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Being wheeled around the airport I got a few funny looks and felt a little embarrassed. Still I was very grateful for the assistance. I was really pooped. 🙂
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Hope you’re feeling better!!
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Thank you. The flight was December 23, 2019. I was feeling much better by the end of the following day. In time for Xmas:)
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The external appearances are like a book cover. I too am not externally visible. However i have internal issues that make me weak from some bad prescriptions. Hope your travels are successful in how you need.
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So true. External appearance tells us very little about what is going on inside people physically, mentally and emotionally. I felt better the next day. I have no travel plans now. They have all been cancelled. Stay well. Thanks for reading and commenting!
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I think I would have felt the same as you, both in questioning whether some people really need the extra attention, and then being embarrassed at having to use the service myself. And then I would have had sympathy for those using a wheelchair in the future. Lessons learned for both of us!
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Yes. In the future I’m not judging anyone who is getting assistance.
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After reading your story, I’ll try to remind myself to do the same thing.
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You had much better luck getting a pushed wheelchair in Charlotte than I did. I had knee replacement surgery in mid- July. I underestimated how my progress I would make my September when we had planned to fly first class to San Diego. Since our puddle jumper from Charlottsville almost always lands as far away from the transcontinental terminals as is physically possible within one stretched out Charlotte airport, I had had the forethought to request wheelchair in both Charlotte and San Diego. When we got off the plane in Charlotte, there were plenty of wheel chairs and no one to push it. My husband pushed my wheelchair across three terminals to get to our gate. The terminal we had landed in was an old terminal with carpet which made pushing the wheel chair a challenge. I was met planeside in San Diego-a much nicer experience. On the way back, we also had no one to push the chair in Charlotte. We abandoned it next to some rocking chairs between terminals since we had a lot of time for me to limp to the gate.
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Sorry to hear you had a tough time with getting help at CLT. I guess I was lucky with the wheelchair. I landed on the B Concourse. The wheelchair guy was great. He waited on me while I ducked in the bathroom and took me all the way to the rideshare pickup. Sounds like you were on E Concourse where most commuter planes are assigned. Connecting to mainline jets from there is a hike! Good news is the awful carpet at CLT is being replaced slowly. I was a little embarrassed using a wheelchair because I looked perfectly healthy but the diarrhea and who knows what else kicked my butt. Carrying the rollaboard and backpack I could walk only 40 or 50 feet before needing a rest. I was back to normal by the end of the next day thankfully..
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That’s good. I did not need a wheelchair during my December and February trips through Charlotte. Still not fond of how spread out that airport is.
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No, no and no. Hope you’re now feeling much better.
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Thank you Sheree. I felt much better after about one day. I’m glad you have never had to use a wheelchair or board early. That is a day I’d like to put off for a long time.
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Me too!
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